Listen & observe fully before responding

Biases, and assumptions cloud our perception of reality, and prevent us from seeing things as they really are. Whether we are aware of it or not, these preconceptions shape our beliefs, decisions, and actions, and influence our relationship with the world and the people around us.

Often fuelled by the media, social norms, and cultural values. We are taught to judge people by their race, gender, socio-economic status, sexual orientation, and other superficial characteristics, rather than seeing them as unique individuals with their own experiences, stories, and perspectives. This not only limits our ability to connect with others but also prevents us from understanding ourselves and the world around us.

The solution to this problem is simple, but not always easy: we must observe and listen without bias. We must learn to suspend our judgment, put ourselves in other people’s shoes, and try to see things from different angles. We must challenge our assumptions and question our beliefs, in order to gain a deeper, more nuanced understanding of the world.

This requires patience, openness, and a willingness to grow and learn. It means being willing to admit that we don’t know everything, and that there is always room for improvement. It also means being humble enough to accept that our own perspectives may be limited or flawed, and that we can gain valuable insights from others.

In practice, observing and listening without bias means paying attention to the details, nuances, and subtleties of a situation or conversation, rather than jumping to conclusions based on stereotypes or assumptions. It means asking questions, seeking clarification, and genuinely trying to understand the other person’s point of view, rather than dismissing them as “wrong” or “ignorant”.

Of course, this is easier said than done. It can be difficult to set aside our own biases and prejudices, especially when we feel strongly about a particular issue or have had negative experiences in the past. However, if we can learn to be more aware of our own biases, and make a conscious effort to see things from different angles, we can gradually overcome these obstacles and gain a more accurate understanding of ourselves and the world.

In conclusion, observing and listening without bias is crucial if we want to get closer to the truth. It requires us to challenge our assumptions, be open to new perspectives, and cultivate a genuine curiosity about the world and the people around us. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it – because it allows us to connect with others, expand our horizons, and live more fulfilling lives.